Cures for Incompatible Signs of Lovers
What to do if your partner and you have incompatible signs?
When it comes to love, the lovers with horoscope inter-restriction or offending signs are inevitably. In marriage, however, the zodiac sign is rather an influencing than decisive factor and you should not break up rashly because of the incompatible signs; instead, you should check the other aspects carefully. If you do have incompatible signs, you can actively find the solutions to grow old together. There are many reasons for the incompatible signs, mostly offending, harming and punishment, which have different remedies.
What to Do If Your Partner and You Have Offending Signs?
If your partner and you have an age gap of six years, your marriage will be regarded as inauspicious due to the offending signs and it means many conflicts, no luck by which you are brought together, declining relationship or being harmful to one of you. In Chinese Zodiac, there are six offending groups; they are Rat and Horse, Ox and Sheep, Tiger and Monkey, Rabbit and Rooster, Dragon and Dog, Snake and Pig. How to solve the offending signs? You can make some simple adjustments from sign configuration, house Feng Shui and decorations, which will bring you good results.
1. Rat and Horse Offending: if your partner and you are under the sign of Rat and Horse respectively, you should not place your bed in south-north direction. In addition, you can place a tiger or money decoration in your bedroom. But remember, you can place only one to solve the conflicting problem. Or, you may choose to give birth to a child in the year of rabbit or ox to solve the offending problem. Besides, you can also make friends with those under tiger or rabbit sign as the bridge of your relationship.
2. Ox and Sheep Offending: if your partner and you are under the sign of Ox and Sheep respectively, you should not place your bed in northeast-southwest direction but live in the south or west room and head to south or west when sleeping. Also, you may place a horse or rooster decoration in your bedroom or give birth to a child in the year of rat or horse to solve the problem.
3. Tiger and Monkey Offending: if your partner and you are under the sign of Tiger and Monkey respectively, you should not place your bed in northeast-southwest direction but place a horse or rat decoration in your bedroom. Also, you may choose to give birth to a child in the year of pig to solve the problem.
4. Rabbit and Rooster Offending: if your partner and you are under the sign of Rabbit and Rooster respectively, you should not place your bed in east-west direction but live in the north or southwest room and head to north or southwest when sleeping. In addition, you may place a horse or rat decoration and give birth to a child in the year of dragon or dog to solve the conflicting.
5. Dragon and Dog Offending: for you Dragon and Dog couple, you should not place your bed in southeast-northwest direction but head to north when sleeping and place a monkey or tiger decoration. Also, you may give birth to a child in the year of rooster or rabbit to solve the conflicting problem.
6. Snake and Pig Offending: if your partner and you are under the sign of Snake and Pig respectively, you should not place your bed in southeast-northwest direction but live in the east room and head to east when sleeping. Also, you may place a rabbit or tiger decoration in your bedroom or give birth to a child in the year of tiger to solve the offending.
Above are the solutions to six offending (conflicting) groups in Chinese Zodiac which can solve some problems. If you want to fundamentally solve the problem and get a happy marriage, however, you also need to check the matching, compatibility and incompatibility of your horoscope, and make the overall adjustment and planning from the aspects like five elements, Feng Shui and religion.
1. Rat and Horse Offending: if your partner and you are under the sign of Rat and Horse respectively, you should not place your bed in south-north direction. In addition, you can place a tiger or money decoration in your bedroom. But remember, you can place only one to solve the conflicting problem. Or, you may choose to give birth to a child in the year of rabbit or ox to solve the offending problem. Besides, you can also make friends with those under tiger or rabbit sign as the bridge of your relationship.
2. Ox and Sheep Offending: if your partner and you are under the sign of Ox and Sheep respectively, you should not place your bed in northeast-southwest direction but live in the south or west room and head to south or west when sleeping. Also, you may place a horse or rooster decoration in your bedroom or give birth to a child in the year of rat or horse to solve the problem.
3. Tiger and Monkey Offending: if your partner and you are under the sign of Tiger and Monkey respectively, you should not place your bed in northeast-southwest direction but place a horse or rat decoration in your bedroom. Also, you may choose to give birth to a child in the year of pig to solve the problem.
4. Rabbit and Rooster Offending: if your partner and you are under the sign of Rabbit and Rooster respectively, you should not place your bed in east-west direction but live in the north or southwest room and head to north or southwest when sleeping. In addition, you may place a horse or rat decoration and give birth to a child in the year of dragon or dog to solve the conflicting.
5. Dragon and Dog Offending: for you Dragon and Dog couple, you should not place your bed in southeast-northwest direction but head to north when sleeping and place a monkey or tiger decoration. Also, you may give birth to a child in the year of rooster or rabbit to solve the conflicting problem.
6. Snake and Pig Offending: if your partner and you are under the sign of Snake and Pig respectively, you should not place your bed in southeast-northwest direction but live in the east room and head to east when sleeping. Also, you may place a rabbit or tiger decoration in your bedroom or give birth to a child in the year of tiger to solve the offending.
Above are the solutions to six offending (conflicting) groups in Chinese Zodiac which can solve some problems. If you want to fundamentally solve the problem and get a happy marriage, however, you also need to check the matching, compatibility and incompatibility of your horoscope, and make the overall adjustment and planning from the aspects like five elements, Feng Shui and religion.
What to Do If Your Partner and You Have Harming Signs?
As a Chinese folk song of matching marriage goes, ''rat and sheep, ox and horse, rooster and dog, snake and tiger, rabbit and dragon, monkey and pig are not suitable for each other.'' This means the six groups are harming to each other and the marriage in such a matching is bad. See the following for the solutions:
1. Rat and Sheep Harming: if your partner and you are under this situation, you may choose a lucky day with Shen (申), Chen (辰), Hai (亥) and Mao (卯) to hold the wedding; you Rat people may choose a groomsman or bridesmaid under the sign of monkey or dragon while you sheep people may choose a groomsman or bridesmaid under the sign of pig or rabbit. In addition, you can give birth to a child in the year of monkey or rabbit. While buying a house, you may choose the one with the main bedroom in southwest or east in terms of Feng Shui. Besides, you may place a monkey or rabbit decoration or wear such a jewelry: monkey for rat and rabbit for sheep.
2. Ox and Horse Harming: you may choose a lucky day with Si (巳), You (酉), Yin (寅) and Xu (戌) to hold the wedding; you Ox people may choose a groomsman or bridesmaid under the sign of snake or rooster while you Horse people may choose a groomsman or bridesmaid under the sign of tiger or dog. Also, you can give birth to a child in the year of snake or tiger. From the perspective of Feng Shui, you may choose a house with the main bedroom in northeast or southeast. Besides, you may place a snake or tiger decoration or wear such a jewelry: tiger for horse and snake for ox.
3. Rooster and Dog Harming: you may choose a lucky day with Si (巳), Chou (丑), Yin (寅) and Wu (午) to hold the wedding; you Rooster people may choose a groomsman or bridesmaid under the sign of snake or ox while you Dog people may choose a groomsman or bridesmaid under the sign of tiger or horse. Also, you can give birth to a child in the year of snake or horse. From the aspect of Feng Shui, you may choose a house with the main bedroom in southeast or east. Besides, you may place or wear a snake or horse ornament: snake for rooster while horse for dog.
4. Tiger and Snake Harming: you may choose a lucky day with You (酉), Chou (丑), Wu (午) and Xu (戌) to hold the wedding; you Snake people may choose a groomsman or bridesmaid under the sign of rooster or ox while you Tiger people may choose a groomsman or bridesmaid under the sign of dog or horse. Also, you can give birth to a child in the year of ox or horse. From the aspect of Feng Shui, you may choose a house with the main bedroom in west or northwest. Besides, you may place or wear an ox or horse ornament: ox for snake while horse for tiger.
5. Rabbit and Dragon Harming: you may choose a lucky day with Zi (子), Shen (申), Hai (亥) and Wei (未) to hold the wedding; you Dragon people may choose a groomsman or bridesmaid under the sign of monkey or rat while you Rabbit people may choose a groomsman or bridesmaid under the sign of pig or sheep. Also, you can give birth to a child in the year of rat or pig. From the perspective of Feng Shui, you may choose a house with the main bedroom in northwest or north. Besides, you may place or wear a rat or pig ornament: rat for dragon while pig for rabbit.
6. Monkey and Pig Harming: you may choose a lucky day with Zi (子), Chen (辰), Mao (卯) and Wei (未) to hold the wedding; you Monkey people may choose a groomsman or bridesmaid under the sign of dragon or rat while you Pig people may choose a groomsman or bridesmaid under the sign of rabbit or sheep. Also, you may give birth to a child in the year of dragon or sheep. From the perspective of Feng Shui, you may choose a house with the main bedroom in southeast or southwest. Besides, you may place or wear a rat or rabbit ornament: rat for monkey while rabbit for pig.
1. Rat and Sheep Harming: if your partner and you are under this situation, you may choose a lucky day with Shen (申), Chen (辰), Hai (亥) and Mao (卯) to hold the wedding; you Rat people may choose a groomsman or bridesmaid under the sign of monkey or dragon while you sheep people may choose a groomsman or bridesmaid under the sign of pig or rabbit. In addition, you can give birth to a child in the year of monkey or rabbit. While buying a house, you may choose the one with the main bedroom in southwest or east in terms of Feng Shui. Besides, you may place a monkey or rabbit decoration or wear such a jewelry: monkey for rat and rabbit for sheep.
2. Ox and Horse Harming: you may choose a lucky day with Si (巳), You (酉), Yin (寅) and Xu (戌) to hold the wedding; you Ox people may choose a groomsman or bridesmaid under the sign of snake or rooster while you Horse people may choose a groomsman or bridesmaid under the sign of tiger or dog. Also, you can give birth to a child in the year of snake or tiger. From the perspective of Feng Shui, you may choose a house with the main bedroom in northeast or southeast. Besides, you may place a snake or tiger decoration or wear such a jewelry: tiger for horse and snake for ox.
3. Rooster and Dog Harming: you may choose a lucky day with Si (巳), Chou (丑), Yin (寅) and Wu (午) to hold the wedding; you Rooster people may choose a groomsman or bridesmaid under the sign of snake or ox while you Dog people may choose a groomsman or bridesmaid under the sign of tiger or horse. Also, you can give birth to a child in the year of snake or horse. From the aspect of Feng Shui, you may choose a house with the main bedroom in southeast or east. Besides, you may place or wear a snake or horse ornament: snake for rooster while horse for dog.
4. Tiger and Snake Harming: you may choose a lucky day with You (酉), Chou (丑), Wu (午) and Xu (戌) to hold the wedding; you Snake people may choose a groomsman or bridesmaid under the sign of rooster or ox while you Tiger people may choose a groomsman or bridesmaid under the sign of dog or horse. Also, you can give birth to a child in the year of ox or horse. From the aspect of Feng Shui, you may choose a house with the main bedroom in west or northwest. Besides, you may place or wear an ox or horse ornament: ox for snake while horse for tiger.
5. Rabbit and Dragon Harming: you may choose a lucky day with Zi (子), Shen (申), Hai (亥) and Wei (未) to hold the wedding; you Dragon people may choose a groomsman or bridesmaid under the sign of monkey or rat while you Rabbit people may choose a groomsman or bridesmaid under the sign of pig or sheep. Also, you can give birth to a child in the year of rat or pig. From the perspective of Feng Shui, you may choose a house with the main bedroom in northwest or north. Besides, you may place or wear a rat or pig ornament: rat for dragon while pig for rabbit.
6. Monkey and Pig Harming: you may choose a lucky day with Zi (子), Chen (辰), Mao (卯) and Wei (未) to hold the wedding; you Monkey people may choose a groomsman or bridesmaid under the sign of dragon or rat while you Pig people may choose a groomsman or bridesmaid under the sign of rabbit or sheep. Also, you may give birth to a child in the year of dragon or sheep. From the perspective of Feng Shui, you may choose a house with the main bedroom in southeast or southwest. Besides, you may place or wear a rat or rabbit ornament: rat for monkey while rabbit for pig.
What to Do If Your Partner and You Have Punishment Signs?
It refers to the punishment between different zodiac signs. Traditionally, the power of punishment is bigger than offending and harming. If six offending means quarrel and six harming means hurt to each other, punishment means fighting against each other. In daily life, many people may inevitably encounter the punishment of signs in a relationship or marriage. Sometimes, you may have very good relationship but just cannot get along well and often quarrel with each other, making both of you feel tired and even affecting your relationship. Following solutions will play a great role in changing the situation.
Rat and Rabbit Punishment
It means your marriage will often be troubled by a third party.
Cures: Monkey can solve the Rat and Rabbit punishment because rat is compatible with monkey while rabbit also coincides with monkey; pig can also solve this problem because pig and rat are in the same direction while pig and rabbit are in the same compatible group.
Tiger, Snake and Monkey Punishment
Generally, it leads to ingratitude, dispute, lawsuit, fighting, quarrel, disaster, disease and other troubles.
Cures: Ox can solve the Tiger and Snake punishment because tiger and ox are in the same horoscope and coincide with each other; horse can also solve the problem because tiger and horse are in the same compatible group while snake and horse are in the same direction.
Pig or snake can solve the Tiger and Monkey punishment.
If your partner and you are under the sign of snake and monkey respectively, you will have no problem because snake and monkey are one of the six compatible group in the 12 earthly branches.
Ox, Sheep and Dog Punishment
In general, it indicates quarrel, martial disharmony and extramarital affair.
Ox and Sheep Punishment: any sign of rat, snake, rooster, horse, pig and rabbit can solve the problem.
Sheep and Dog Punishment: horse is preferred to solve the problem because horse and dog are one of the four compatible groups while horse and sheep are one of the six compatible groups; rabbit can also solve the problem since rabbit and dog are one of the six compatible groups while rabbit and sheep are one of the four compatible groups.
Dog and Ox Punishment: any sign of rat, tiger, rabbit, snake, horse and rooster can solve the problem.
Rat and Rabbit Punishment
It means your marriage will often be troubled by a third party.
Cures: Monkey can solve the Rat and Rabbit punishment because rat is compatible with monkey while rabbit also coincides with monkey; pig can also solve this problem because pig and rat are in the same direction while pig and rabbit are in the same compatible group.
Tiger, Snake and Monkey Punishment
Generally, it leads to ingratitude, dispute, lawsuit, fighting, quarrel, disaster, disease and other troubles.
Cures: Ox can solve the Tiger and Snake punishment because tiger and ox are in the same horoscope and coincide with each other; horse can also solve the problem because tiger and horse are in the same compatible group while snake and horse are in the same direction.
Pig or snake can solve the Tiger and Monkey punishment.
If your partner and you are under the sign of snake and monkey respectively, you will have no problem because snake and monkey are one of the six compatible group in the 12 earthly branches.
Ox, Sheep and Dog Punishment
In general, it indicates quarrel, martial disharmony and extramarital affair.
Ox and Sheep Punishment: any sign of rat, snake, rooster, horse, pig and rabbit can solve the problem.
Sheep and Dog Punishment: horse is preferred to solve the problem because horse and dog are one of the four compatible groups while horse and sheep are one of the six compatible groups; rabbit can also solve the problem since rabbit and dog are one of the six compatible groups while rabbit and sheep are one of the four compatible groups.
Dog and Ox Punishment: any sign of rat, tiger, rabbit, snake, horse and rooster can solve the problem.
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