Not Good Relationship between me and my husband

My name, Nida I got married since 12 May 2012, I was born on 03 June 1988, and my husband born on 30 April 1987 after married, we got 2 kids now. but the problem is our relationship not so good, we always argue at least 3 time a week. How to reduce argue in my family ? as I never want to have this issue, and always calm down as we do not want to get devoid. Please advice me the way to make my husband love me same the beginning.

thanks and best
Nida