Metal lady in a full Fire house
Asked by S***K |
Good day! I am a female Metal Monkey (1980) married to a Fire Snake (1977) and both my children also have the fire element (Fire Monkey & Fire Rooster). I am having many marital problems with my husband - especially financially. My children are very loving, but they are also very mischievous. I am constantly doing most of the work in the home and am constantly drained. As my element is dominated by the others, is there anything I can do/have to strengthen my position in the home and marriage?
Two parts to this: control the burn rate, replenish the metal energy, if it really is as exhausting as it sounds with all that fire element running around you.
Part1: Fire controls metal but water controls fire.Try water feature/tabletop fountain and blues in family areas (not greens!)
Part2: Earth strengthens metal so decorate in terracotta/beige/ecru colors, in squarish shapes if possible. If you have a space that you escape to, I would put earth elements in there like a zen garden, terracotta pottery, earthy colored throw blankets/pillows. Change them from time to time.
Metal draws water to it (natural cycle) but water can diminish metal in its Reducing Phase so pay attention to the effects the water decor may have on you and adjust accordingly.
Remember, you are looking for balance so if you can't balance the house, balance yourself as best as possible. You may need to try several locations, colors, and materials within a space but something will work!