He works for my soon to be ex husband!
Asked by C*** |
Hi-my name is Christine and I’m currently involved with a gentleman Tiger who happens to work for so to be ex husband. I’m a pig, and the chemistry between he and I has been amazing and I adore him! He is hesitant and I understand but I need more than wonderful sex and am frustrated because I’m not a priority. Do I go forward with a gentleman horse, or should I try to b patient with my darling Tiger? I’m stomach sick over this!!!
1. The Tiger’s Hesitation: Real Concerns
Tigers are passionate but value independence—they can be fiercely loyal but also cautious when a relationship complicates their life (like workplace ties to your ex). His hesitation may stem from:
Professional boundaries: Working for your soon-to-be ex-husband adds messy dynamics he may want to avoid.
Emotional readiness: Even if the chemistry is electric, he might not be prepared for the seriousness you crave.
Zodiac clash: Pigs and Tigers have strong attraction, but long-term, Tigers can be restless while Pigs seek security. If he’s not prioritizing you now, that may not change.
2. The Horse Option: A New Direction
Horses are charismatic, adventurous, and more straightforward than Tigers. A Horse could offer:
Clarity: Horses are less likely to string you along—they’re either all-in or not.
Compatibility: Pigs and Horses harmonize well; both enjoy romance and loyalty without the Tiger’s unpredictability.
A fresh start: Without ties to your past, this relationship could grow without baggage.
3. What You Need to Ask Yourself
Are you clinging to Tiger because of chemistry or real potential? Amazing sex and adoration are powerful, but if he’s not meeting your emotional needs, it may stay stagnant.
Can you handle being "patient" indefinitely? If you’re already stomach-sick, this anxiety won’t ease unless he commits—and he’s showing you he won’t.
Is the Horse genuinely appealing, or just a rebound? Don’t jump to the Horse just to escape Tiger’s limbo. Make sure you’re drawn to him, not just his availability.
4. The Hard Truth
Tiger’s hesitation is his answer. If he wanted to prioritize you, he would—regardless of zodiac signs or circumstances. The Horse might offer a healthier, more open-hearted connection.
Final Advice
Give Tiger one honest conversation: "I need more than this. Can you step up?" If he wavers, walk away. You deserve someone who chooses you boldly—whether Tiger or Horse.
Your heart is tender, but don’t let chemistry cloud your worth. Prioritize your peace.